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When is the right time to not say something, or, to say something? If you have to ask that question, then should it be asked at all? If what you say makes sense does that make it right? If what you say seems wrong, does that make it wrong? Could it be the right time but the wrong thing to say? Or could it be the wrong thing to say but the right time? If you say it and realize that maybe it wasn't right or the right time, can you take it back? If you say it at the right time does that automatically make it right? If you don't say anything, can you say that you really wanted to? Can you play dumb and just say that you didn't know what to say? Or can you say that you were afraid to say the wrong thing? What if you say that you really wanted to say something but didn't know if it was the right time? Did I repeat myself anywhere here? I'm confused!